I’m tired of this

My boyfriend doesn’t put me in consideration he makes his own decisions without me ! On Thursday night Boyfriend was going to go pick up some money at his moms house that he did a job for his stepdad and he stay there for hours and I told him when he was getting home because it was already getting late and I was already making dinner and everything he told me he was waiting for his stepdad to bring the money but yet he told me that his mom had the money and I called him and he sounded like he was laughing and outside with somebody Anyways he was actually drinking with his stepdad’s friends when supposedly he told me he was with his mom getting the money and yeah basically his stepdad is his ex dad so his mom got with his ex is his ex dad So it bothers me every time he goes over to his moms house Because I know his exes family lives there anyways we got into a big argument and stuff and I told him that I was tired of it so the weekend came on we didn’t talk he kept coming home late because he was drinking and I went to my sisters house to have some drinks I was with my two daughters under age 3 He just doesn’t come in consideration like right now His exes uncle called him to go do a job all the way in Louisiana and we live in Houston Texas so it’s like four hours away from us and he just got up and said I’m good I’m leaving to work and I’m like right now and it’s seven at night and then he said yes he didn’t Even bother asking me like if it’s OK or you know where he’s going exactly what he’s doing what kind of job he’s doing anything he didn’t tell me anything he just said I’m leaving that’s it I’m just tired of this