I don’t like anything used for a period

I don’t know what to do about my periods. I hate pads! It’s gross to me and I get bad pad rash and just don’t like them. I am not judging anyone who uses pads I have multiple friends that do. I use regular tampons and bleed through them in 30 minutes. I use supper and it hurts too bad from not enough blood and then on random days I’m bleeding through my supper in 30 minutes. I have tried the cup but it hurts me to bad having it in. (Iv only had sex once and years ago so I’m probably just not open down there) I can’t find a product that I like! Any suggestions?! I’m tired of ruining underwear 😩