So I’ve been kinda seeing this guy since the beginning of October. We both agreed not to date, even though we both kinda have feelings for each other. He stays at my place more than he’s home, texts me everyday, and calls me everyday when he’s driving, either to or from work, sometimes both. We have a great connection and get along really well. We’ve never fought, even though I’m sure there are plenty of times we could have. About every other week, I ask for a feeling check. Like, “hey, help me keep my feelings in check. I don’t expect us to ever be anything official, nor do I want to jump into it right now, but remind me that your feelings are also not at a point where you want a relationship.” So far, so good.

So tonight we’re in bed snuggling and watching tiktoks together, and he just scrolls past any half naked, gorgeous, thirst trap kind of video on his for you page. I noticed a few weeks ago he started doing it, but I never said anything. Everyone looks. He said to me, “I don’t know if you noticed, but I don’t really watch those kinds of videos around you anymore.” Like, actually yeah, I did, and asked him why. He said it felt disrespectful to me to do that so he’s stopped doing it.

Like, what? Is this a thing? Does this mean something? Please let me know what you think, because I don’t know if I’ve ever been so confused😅