So many women keep telling me “9-11dpo is too early to test”, “keep trying you’re not out till af comes”, “there’s still a chance for you to get your positive”. But it’s kinda hard to take this advice when these same women are women who got their bfp at 7-10dpo or conceived within the first 3 months of trying. I’m not saying it’s bad or anything I’m really happy for you gals that get your early positive or conceive fast it’s just getting hard to stay hopeful and positive without feeling like I’m never going to become someone’s mom 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’ve been trying for years y’all, nothing is wrong with my fertility that I know of. Ig God just don’t wanna make me a mommy yet.