The other day my boyfriend of 6 years and I were talking- I don’t remember how it started but we got on the topic of sex and I mentioned how I didn’t LOVE giving handjobs or blowjobs. Well now he is set off, he doesn’t want to do them anymore because now he knows I don’t like them.

First I should add that his sex drive is 1000x and mine is low/normal and for the past six years we have never had an issue. But now that I’ve said this, he claims he will never be able to forget that I said I didn’t love doing it, or if I do say one day I like doing that I’m lying to make him feel better. I honestly don’t know what to do. I know he really enjoys them and I love making him feel good- but that’s not enough, I have to love it too? I never said it to be a bitch, I phrased it to him in a way that was like “well I don’t wake up every morning planning to rub your dick everyday” and now he’s all bent out of shape. Was I wrong? How do we fix this ? Thoughts welcome