Am I out this month?

Anyone else in the same boat? I normally have brown spotting for 5 days before AF every single cycle and breasts normally aren’t tender. This month, that didn’t happen. I’ve had tender breasts since 5 DPO and today I am 12 DPO with brown spotting this morning, but had a BFN this morning before the spotting.

Am I out this month? 🙁