I’m 31 weeks with our second and have gained a significant amount of weight. I’m not confident at all really - but he assures me he doesn’t notice or care about the weight gain and still finds me just as sexy. However, our sex life has really gone down past few months.

To be fair, he works long hours (12-14 hour days), so he has explained to me before that it effects his sex drive as he’s tired once he’s home. First trimester we didn’t do much because I was sick constantly. Second trimester sex picked back up but then I started getting crampy down there and we mainly have been doing other sexual things since but sex maybe 1-2 times a month - sexual things like mutual masturbation & oral a few times a week.

Should I be worried? Is this normal?