I need help. My husband and I have been together for two years, we got married last year. I’ve always wondered what does it mean to make love? And I realized I don’t think we’ve ever have. How do you know when you do make love is my question? Cause I’m not even sure. On our wedding night he got super drunk and we didn’t have sex. Bummed that we didn’t cause it was a special day but oh well. Idk how to bring it up to my husband? I don’t have a lot of confidence and I feel nervous to tell him this. When would we know it’s happening? I asked him before once and he said he’s never done that make love to someone so Idk I guess I feel awkward if he doesn’t say much about it