I'm 31, my fiance is 21and I have a 10 year old. I've never dated younger before. He is everything that I have ever wanted and needed. Soo young in some ways and in others he's more of a MAN than anyone I've ever been with. (I don't just mean in the bedroom. I mean as a whole.) Kind and compassionate and obnoxious, he LISTENS. Which is amazing.

And yet he is so young. I'm the only serious relationship he has ever had. He is ready to take life by the horns even though he has no idea what that entails and has an amazing and yet mother-hen kinda mom. (I love her like crazy) He wants to get married and have babies. He is an amazing step-dad to my 10 yr old. (More like older brother than dad, but the age gap makes everything wierd)

Then there is me. I've had a lot of 3 year relationships. Yr1 happy, yr 2 puppy love wears off and the bad starts to surface, yr 3 = hell. It's happened so many times I'm paranoid.

I want this to work. He is amazing. But I'm f***ing terrified.