I just found out am pregnant at 46 was not plan & now am very anxious & scared my hubby is very happy but to be honest I have mix feelings I feel as am to old to have a baby at my age I do have older children. Been having really painful back aches & lower stomach pains I never had this before with my other pregnancy I haven’t seen a doctor yet I do have a appointment this Friday 5th but am so worried what they will tell me I heard they encourage older women to abort cause of age & birth defects I have mix emotions 😔