So last night my husband and I were in the middle of doing it and he just got soft and he tried to get it hard again which he did and then it went soft AGAIN. We’ve been married for almost 2 years and it’s only happened around 4 times sometimes he’ll get soft because he really has to pee and then he’ll finish. We have sex often like nearly every other day and it rarely happens. He’s still in his early twenties and I just know he’s worried about it.