So I told my husband that I was tired and didn't want to fold the clean laundry in the dryer tonight, but that it was okay because we didn't have a full load for me to do tomorrow anyway. His response:

Well I prefer to do all the laundry on one day because usually you sleep in until 10 on Saturday or Sunday and I get it all through the washer/dryer then, and then we just have to fold it all later.

😶...🤨...😐

I havent left more than 1 load of laundry over the weekend for months. I do one load of laundry a day during my work week because I dont want to spend half a day or more doing laundry on a single day.

I will admit to asking him if he's okay with me sleeping in on a Sunday once every 2 weeks because I am, generally speaking, exhausted. My days start at 4am to work, then do our wake up routine with our toddler at 730 or 8, hubby goes to work at 630. Work 9-11 while toddler plays, primary toddler duty 11-3, we go to the park 3-5 most days. I cook dinner most nights at 5, then I do bath time while hubby does dishes, and then hubby puts baby to bed. I then finish work 730-10 or so, go to sleep, and repeat the next day.

My days are long. Im not trying to be a martyr, I enjoy the park time and I value getting to be home with our son.

But I was just shocked when he said 'usually' he anything with laundry...because he doesnt, I do!