Okay so my husband has a bad habit of breaking commitments

He also has a tendency to pretty much demand I do things for him and if I don’t want to do what he’s asking, he guilt trips me and says I don’t help or I’m not a team player

He has his own junk removal business. I have helped him on countless occasions removing nasty junk and trash, filled with rat shit and cockroaches. Just nasty. Not my thing. But I’ve helped him because I try to support him. I don’t ever see a dollar from helping him

He did a job and met this older woman. Her daughter is a crack addict and destroyed the lady’s house and keeps coming back and stays in the house smoking crack with her boyfriend

They stole and wrote fraud cheques from the lady and her accounts got frozen. She needs to go to the bank and my husband offered to take her yesterday but canceled on her to go do a job

He has another potential job and is about to cancel on her again and then he demands I go run her errands with her. I’m a new driver and I don’t love having to drive around a busy area that I’m not familiar with. I have anxiety and find it so difficult especially when someone else is in the car. Also she’s wheelchair bound and it will be difficult for me to help her in and out of my vehicle

I told him I’m not comfortable doing that and he told me I’m not a team player and how I’m not helping him.

I just feel like HE made the commitment and now he’s trying to make me do it when he already told me he doesn’t want to go help her

Like why would he offer then? I feel like he offered to play the hero but he’s actually not going to follow through

And I don’t think it’s fair to guilt trip me about not doing the thing he said he would do, for him

Am I wrong?