I’m a SAHM to my 2 year old, & I watch three other kiddos (none above age of 2) Monday-Friday. To me, I consider it a job helping teach the little ones how to play together, colors & numbers, reading books, fine motor skill practice, helping “cook” lunch. It’s hard work, especially getting up at 5am for the first kid to get dropped off.

My husband doesn’t help much, he works 8-10 hrs a day & comes home and will play video games, watch tv, take a nap. No help with housework, it’s like I’m just expected to do everything. He doesn’t bitch about me not getting everything done every day, but doesn’t help & I’m overwhelmed every day. I at least wish I felt appreciated, that he noticed everything I do & that I do work hard. I gave up trying to get him to help or tell him I’m tired too. It just causes big fights & I can’t take any more stress than I have now.

I really don’t feel like doing anything nice for him for Valentine’s Day. I’ve been this way for a couple years now & it’s so sad because I used to love to plan gifts and surprises. I’m just tired. I just want some sleep. I don’t want to feel so alone anymore.