Getting Too Attached?

Question

How do I stop getting attached so easily? I’m not obsessive by the way.. If I was texting a guy and he wasn’t texting me back straight away, I’ll keep thinking about it and make myself feel sick. It sounds weird but I’m sure ya’ll know what I mean.

Answer

You say you’re not obsessive, but to continue thinking about him not texting you back to the point of not feeling well, is obsessive thinking. I think we all do it to some degree, so it’s not an abnormal thing really… But you just have to try and let go of those thoughts and relax about it. He will text you when he text you and it doesn’t mean anything about you or the state of your relationship. ￼So when you get those types of thoughts, just say yourself, “he’s allowed to text me back in his own time and I can be patient and flexible.”￼

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You keep yourself busy so time passes by and don’t focus your life around a man. You were fine before him and you will be fine after him. A man doesn’t complete you or define you or your happiness, you do, you complete yourself. Life is what you make it, if you aren’t happy, you change what you can and what you can’t change, you learn to love, accept and embrace yourself flaws and all. A man is supposed to be compliment your life not complicate it. I’ve been with my dude 7 months. Being aloof is my best friend to not get attached quickly and think he’s gonna be my husband etc. taking things slow. That whatever attitude in my mind so that I don’t over think things. Keeping yourself busy. Pampering yourself. Exercise. Cook. Meal prep. Taking walks. Having a dance party. Doing a puzzle. Playing games on your phone or on real life. Taking a bath. Painting your nails. Getting a massage. Getting your hair done etc. don’t focus on him focus on yourself. Learn a language. Volunteer. Etc. There is more to life than just a a man.

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Aw girly🥺, this sounds more like overthinking. Overthinking is normal but don’t drive yourself sick about it. 
Doing something that will help distract you from the moment could help. Taking bathes. Taking a walk or even baking can help you take your mind off things. 
I hope all is well :)

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That is obsessive behaviour, I put the phone on silent, put it down and go do something else. 
You have to make yourself realise that people don’t always respond straight away and that is ok. Put yourself in their shoes, your talking to someone and something else comes up so you go off to deal with it you not responding straight way

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