I’m 17 weeks 1d. I had an appointment yesterday and heard the heartbeat (149) and have been super set on being team green this pregnancy. Happy baby is healthy but I am struggling to connect with baby without knowing. I don’t like calling the baby “it” and my husband and I haven’t really come up with a nickname for baby. With my son we knew at 12 weeks what he was and connected with him instantly when we found out. I miss that feeling this go-round.

Anyone else going through this or go through it with other pregnancies? We have an anatomy scan at the beginning of March.