How many times a month does your SO go out with his friends? Does he have a hobby?

I need to vent. So my man which is the father of my child goes out like 1x a week. He has a motorcycle and that’s what his friends are into. Mind you his friends don’t have kids except him. He works Mon-Fri 10 hours straight so he comes home during dinner then we shower up the baby and ourselves and relax the rest of the time. By the time our night routine is done, it’s around 10pm. He always hogs the tv so we always end up watching what he wants. If i say i want to watch something, he either leaves it to the end or will say something sarcastic and say yeah you can change it. When it’s my turn to show him what i want, he’s asleep on the couch so we really don’t get time to ourselves. During the weekends, he wants to hang out with friends bc he can’t during the week.

Then he complains bc the baby and him don’t have a bond and the baby is attached to me. Today he told me was going to take a test, and go riding with his friends tomorrow. My uncle just passed away unexpectedly so i’m grieving. I told him “i wish you’d just tell me one day, hey baby i planned a day for us. I want to spend the day with the baby” but no he doesn’t. He replied “i always spend time with him at night (once he gets home) & also we spent time today already” I feel like he times when he spends time with us. He then started saying stuff like he pays all the bills and i leave him all the bills which was so random. I’m a SAHM bc he chose to have me stay home. I’m hurt and i feel exhausted trying to have this man wanna stay home with US. Any advice? Please tell me if i’m wrong. But don’t be disrespectful please i’m not in the best situation to get defensive.