me and my boyfriend had sex on the 3 days leading up to ovulation but not on ovulation day. all unprotected and no pulling out. i was on birth control for 5 months and came off of it a month ago. i know birth control can effect how quickly you get pregnant so im just so curious. he has the feeling that this might be the time but i do not at all. im only one day DPO i just need a second opinion on if this could be the month. i also did cramp really badly on my ovulation day which never happens so i didnt know if that could mean it maybe got fertilized . please help