Hubby and I haven’t had sex in like two weeks. Granted I had my period for 3 days but literally every day, he’s gotten oral. He gets in his moods where he is ok and fine but then he snaps and starts yelling at me calling me a liar and stupid, a b**** and Said “why do you think it’s been 2 weeks I don’t want to touch you take a hint” today he was perfect til I only simply told him that a new worker (a male in late 40s or early 50s) overheard me tell a female coworker that I had friends who worked at a certain hospital he came to us from and he said that he knew them. That was literally all. I stay in my office with my door shut 99% of the time.

he’s dx with bipolar but refuses absolutely refuses treatment. Disorder or not what he says to me and how he makes me feel is very disprespectful. He told me if I leave he will (be childish) and set his Facebook to single. Mind you he’s 39. He should be treating me good and not even thinking about being petty. I have horrible panic attacks when he does this to me I feel shaky and like my BP is through the roof. He tells me I’m being a dramatic idiot but he has no idea the problems he’s causing my health. He tells me i am just “lazy.” Yet he’s the one who wants to sleep 24/7. He keeps accusing me of cheating and I’ve never in my life. But he has a record of it — not with me, but his ex wife. This behavior isn’t ok. And when he tells me that he does not even want sex anymore that disturbs me.