Honeymoon over???

Question

I feel like I have lost my connection to my SO. I love him to death and he is my best friend but I don’t feel that connection we once had. Is this something we will ever get back or does it just go down hill from here? There’s time we are together and don’t have a real conversation but just sit in silence. It feels like there is nothing to talk about anymore. I don’t know if that makes sense. I can’t explain it but I find myself wishing for that spark or intimacy new couples feels, the honeymoon phase. I don’t think of other men, I don’t want that with anyone else just him but I don’t know how to get back there. Has anyone experienced this in their relationship? Any advice is welcome. Also, we have been together 10 years.

Answer

Maybe try couples counseling or a sex therapist, try spicing things up, start with complementing each other. There’s a series called light his fire light her fire, other audio tapes or books or whatever they have available and it talks about reigniting the flame. You might want to take a read or listen. The reason the things are so exciting in the beginning is because you both are making the effort you both are putting on your best face, you both a complement each other on our making the effort in each other a priority end you guys are like boyfriend and girlfriend and dating all over again maybe try having date nights doing things that you used to do, having fun together, spicing it up in the bedroom, fulfilling each other‘s fantasies, incorporating sex toys, spontaneity back, bring it back, whether it’s surprising him at his office during the middle of the day and having oral sex in the office, you guys had a reason and we look forward to things because the excitement was still there. Never stop dating your partner, never stop having fun together, never stop making each other a priority. Watch porn together, try and climax when they do, try and do what they do. Pretend to be strangers and pick each other up in a bar, role-play, dressing up, being a stripper, talk with accents, Embrace the character and have fun together, do you things you used to do when you were younger, body paint yourself and get a large tarp and roll around and have sex on it and hang it on the wall nobody will know what it is, edible sex, just no food down near your vagina that’s an infection waiting to happen. Have fun that’s the most part￼￼￼

Honeymoon over???

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