Am I wrong for getting upset when my husband decides it's bedtime and just goes to bed. He doesn't help get our son to bed. He doesn't help clean up after dinner. He doesn't go around and turn off lights or blow out candles or close the blinds. He will go straight to the room, get in bed and thats it. If the bed was made he will throw the extra pillows on his side of the bed on the floor and just get in bed and leave my side made. The man won't even turn the fan on that we sleep with. Idk I know it kinda sounds crazy but ffs is it really that hard to be considerate at all?!