So annoyed with my birth control

I’m on the copper iud with no hormones all the other options my body didn’t agree with. The ring almost dried me up when I was breastfeeding shot made me crazy pill caused chest pains mirena brought back my bed wetting all were bad. But my cycle is 45 days around there and I’m breastfeeding for a whole week my uterus feels full and hurts before it starts and I’m on day 40. Anyone have the copper iud not the hormone one this doesn’t apply to you experiencing this? I’ve had it in for 4 months already.