My friend is having a baby shower. She had been trying for a baby for 3 years and is now pregnant with twins. She is having a baby shower at the end of March. I bought her some gifts for the baby, some gifts to help with pregnancy, and some postpartum presents. It's just one giant gift basket of stuff for her and her babies. I told her I can't go because my fiancé has chronic bronchitis and nobody in her family has taken covid seriously. And because of that several people in her family got covid. And they didn't even quarantine. Her aunt was covid positive and living her life like normal. SHE even went to see her aunt when she knew she was covid positive and she's pregnant. She legit doesn't care if she gets covid or if anyone shows up to her baby's shower is covid positive. I told her because of my fiancé chronic bronchitis, I can't really take that risk. She got upset and said I'm picking my fiancé over her and why did she make me her babies godmother if I'm not gonna be at something so important. I apologized and even gave her the gift basket early but she says I'm selfish and I'm picking someone I've been with for 4 years over her who I've been friends with for 7 years. Am I wrong here? I'm not trying to risk it with covid and her family is so careless there's a good chance someone there will have covid. I'm surprised she hasn't gotten covid