I cannot believe I’m writing this!! I just want to rant since I can’t talk smack to my husband about his parents and I really don’t have anyone to talk to!!! My husband has a group chat with his family and they decided to add me. Why? Because they’re always trying to guilt me. I haven’t allowed anyone not even my own parents visit my daughter. She was born with heart problems and i a extremely paranoid about the virus. I don’t want anyone near my baby, I’m scared for her because the cardiologist did tell us the virus could potentially complicate things for her. My in laws decided to bash me all over the group message saying I was a terrible daughter in law and how they made their own baby room for my daughter to stay over! I told them from the beginning she wasn’t spending any nights with them. I told them we would limit the visit because they are constantly going out and not taking care of themselves. They don’t believe in wearing Facemasks it’s fine if that’s what they want to do but I don’t want my baby around them! They keep saying because of me they hardly use the baby’s room! Like what? Also my father in law makes my daughter less he’s always putting his other grandchild first! He never calls to ask about the baby but is quick to get offended when we are not around! They are constantly buying things for his other grandchild traveling 3 hours every week to visit but can’t even make a phone call to check up on his granddaughter! Since I got pregnant he only Called me 1 time and it was because he couldn’t get ahold of my husband! When I gave birth he never called but got offended when we didn’t send pictures. They didn’t even came to my baby shower! I’m so frustrated because now his family is texting constantly nonstop bashing me! Saying I should allowed my 5 month old to sleep over! I’m I on the wrong here?