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which is better if ur partner lasts longer during sex or finishes quickly?i have read if he lasts longer it means he isn't attracted thats why it lasts longer

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Coming from someone who’s partner finishes fast EVERY SINGLE TIME, I wish he lasted longer.

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My husband would finish quickly I told him how I would like him to change certain things for my own pleasure and sometimes he lasts longer and sometimes he even over thinks it especially when he’s trying to go slow for my pleasure. What you read is not true even a guy who is un attracted can perform for his own self pleasure and finish

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You could try a cock ring to hold the erection longer, or Viagra, and varies from person to person, my partner can control his erection he stares at the ceiling and focus is very hard so he doesn’t come quickly, the last time that we were messing around at his office after hours, he said his neck was killing him I said why he said because I’ve been staring at the ceiling so hard trying to focus and not climax quickly, he said I could explode at any moment I said come for me daddy and he explode in my mouth, I love that he can control it, because when we first started messing around he would come quickly, and I told him I didn’t like that because I didn’t get any enjoyment out of it. So he holds his erection longer psychologically, and when he feels like he’s getting close I’ll either pull out and start going down on me or kissing me to make it last longer, we went five rounds the other night. And then I finish them off with a whirl that poor guy I am up almost exploded in two seconds after all and put him through poor guys gonna need a week to recover. Every guy is different if he masturbates frequently or if he hasn’t had sex in a while or depression, medications can definitely extend the period of how long it lasts, or the ability to even get in direction, I dated a guy who was a diabetic, they changed his medication and one of the side effects was he couldn’t get an erection, so he wouldn’t got Viagra to supplement. He could be having anxiety, depression, hell his mother could pop in his head and loses an erection. ￼￼￼ but like I said every guy is different, I may not have to deal with his level of physical attractiveness towards you or anything like that it depends on his health, depends if he can control it psychologically, depends if whatever is going on inside of us had as well. If he’s trying to delay it on purpose or if he goes quickly, you’re either doing a good job or he just doesn’t care about holding up, some guys pop off quickly roll over and call it  a day some guys go down on you and make the effort or use sex toys ￼Or their hand or anything else to please you, Every couple is different and every man is different, sometimes you get lucky sometimes you get an asshole who says, well it’s not gonna suck itself. I finally got a good partner took me a very long time I’m 42 and he’s 57.

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