high&low sex drive

my bf has a veryyyyy high sex drive he kisses me and i can already feel it as hard as a rock but tbh i feel like mine is very low i don't really care too much for sex and don't look forward to it sometimes because it is so painful for me , and if he pulls out during sex , lets say to switch positions, when he tries to go back in it feels like that type of like stretching burning around my hole if that makes sense . idky that happens to me bc i'm not dry , i get really really wet but just the outside around it becomes so sensitive every little thing hurts it and it turns me off .is that weird ? sometimes i feel like i am the only who girl who doesn't really want to have sex a lot because something is always going wrong to ruin it