I’m 34 weeks pregnant but I’ve had depression way before this pregnancy. First I should say, how my bf did not want this baby in the beginning, and told me to choose him or the baby (I chose the baby but he stayed with me) he just recently has been able to talk about our baby, so I haven’t had much support... like before he didn’t want anyone to even bring her up..

My question is does your partner stand by your side through your depression & let you cry on their shoulder and let you vent to them? I don’t expect for him to make it go away but I just don’t feel like he cares & I honestly need the support from people around me.

Just wondering cause idk if I’m expecting to much. I tell him I’m depressed & he’s like “k” and doesn’t ask how I’m feeling or really concerned about me at all... idk if I’m just blind & don’t want to believe he doesn’t care about me or if it’s simply cause he’s not in touch with his feelings & doesn’t like to express them...

I was also in a car accident when I was around 26 weeks pregnant and I called him & he said “it was probably your fault” and didn’t ask if I was ok he just texted “I feel bad for you” after I told him I couldn’t talk cause I was going to the ER.

He’s not a feelings type of guy, he doesn’t say I love you a lot, he’s not social, don’t even like to go to the store with me let alone dates..

Now that I typed all that I feel like I have been blind 🤦‍♀️😅 but still want opinions on the depression support aspect.