Am I over reacting?

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. In the past he's text other women flirting. I've caught him plenty of times. The main app is snapchat, last year we agreed to get rid of it so he did. Since then he would always sneak and get on snapchat to text other females and I would always find out.

In November I found out he made a new account and was texting different females on there, it was a big argument over that but I still forgave him. He then decided he was going to keep the app but gave me the password. This morning I went on his phone and seen he was adding people I asked him about it he got defensive and told me to stop being insecure. I didn't see any messages or anything but I was thinking maybe i'm just paranoid because of what we've been through. Am I over reacting?

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Why are you still with him?

Ri

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Are your overreacting? No, girl, your underreacting. You are only showing this fool that he can get away with this shit, by constantly forgiving him for literally doing the same thing over and over again. Good grief, where do y'all find these men.

Ta

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This is unacceptable. No man in a happy, healthy relationship would do this. You can do so much better!

Ki

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Your first mistake was forgiving him the first time. After that he now knows that he can do it and you’ll just forgive him. He’s obviously gonna keep doing it. That’s clear. It’s also clear you’ll just take it.

Sa

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No but why TF are you putting up with this?! It's now on YOU because of this. You clearly can't stop a guy from doing what he wants, so its on YOU to walk away or accept his cheating ways

an

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That was always a problem with my boyfriend (now husband) he's never physically cheated but always talked to other girls like their photos ect..he finally just deleted all social media his choice not mine. Idk why guys do it but it's really annoying.

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Men who don’t care about you or your feelings do that when they are in a relationship I have never been in a relationship and they are over here flirting with girls through an app

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ann • Feb 11, 2021
So then why do some guys do it

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. • Feb 11, 2021
No “guys” do that.

an

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Also say to him, how would he feel if you talked to other guys on social medium or snap chatted them.

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ann • Feb 11, 2021
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