Should we find out gender?

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So I just had a baby a few months ago but my birth controlled failed and now baby #2. Honestly I’m not super excited and terrified. But I have no desire to find out where as my husband does. I’ve always wanted to not know until birth... also I feel like it will give me something to look forward to! We had a stillborn boy and have a baby girl so we have stuff for both genders anyways. What do you think.

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I think if you’re struggling to feel excited and this would help you feel excited then definitely wait! Sorry to your partner, but you’re the one growing baby and dealing with hormones right now I think it would be better to wait in this situation

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I got pregnant 7 weeks after having my first baby (girl). Me and my boyfriend decided we would find out the gender ourselves bc we can’t deal with not knowing, but we’re keeping the gender a secret from family and friends until the baby is born. I definitely couldn’t wait myself, but it’s kind of fun and exciting being the only ones that know

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I waited with my 1st and will with this pregnancy too 😊 honestly so much fun, I feel like there are only so many true surprises in life.

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I’m having the same predicament. My husband and I want to wait until birth but our 2 children (9 and 7) want to know so sooooo badly. I’ll feel guilty if I make them wait.

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I wanted to find out so badly but my husband talked me in to waiting and now I’m soooo excited about it! My husband can’t wait to be the first person to know and tell me my baby’s name when he or she is born. It’s a hard wait but I don’t want to loose my last chance to have that amazing moment of finding out at birth. I watched a lot of YouTube videos of people finding out in the hospital and it convinced me.

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Wait!! I let my husband talk me into not waiting for our second and I wish I could have had that surprise. Next time I will wait 😊😊

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My husband and I went team green with all 4 babies.  Was such a great surprise each time.  And it was amazing having those first moments together knowing that nobody else knew the gender but us right after birth.
I see way too many gender reveals gone bad...in that one parent or the other is completely distraught by what gender the baby is.  Wouldn't happen if the gender is kept a surprise because when that baby is born, boy or girl, nothing else matters

Should we find out gender?

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