Kids were never a part of our plan! But yet here we are. One week late and three positive tests later... night one I told my husband and he was completely speechless. He’s loosened up now but still told me multiple times that he’s not ready for this, he never wanted kids, etc. he’s talking to me more about what we need to do and started making plans but I just hope he comes around and realizes this isn’t horrible! Yes it will change our lives but we will figure it out. Please tell me there are other husbands out there similar to mine, I’m starting to get discouraged with him. I wish he was excited