I honestly dont even know wtf to do or why its so hard for him to just understand where im coming from.

a little background:

He has cheated in the past and done shady shit on instagram. Ive never asked to go through his phone or have any of his passwords. Im not controlling or crazy but he has made me very insecure. I know its just instagram but it makes me a bit uncomfortable. im not perfect snd if it doesn’t bother you that your man does then i hope i feel like that one day. I just asked him to stop and he got all defensive and mad and saying alot of shit to me and i domt get why he would choose to follow girls over our 7 year relationship. simply reassuring me or talking NICELY to me would have made me feel better rather than him telling me he can do whatever he wants and making it seem like the girls on ig are more important than me. it shouldnt be a big deal.