Should I be concerned?

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I just found out today by mistake that my boyfriend is watching porn at night after I go to bed. Should I be worried that our sex life is struggling or that he's no longer being satisfied by me?

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Porn is an addiction. It's a form of cheating and it can easily grow to an obsession. You have every right to be upset and I would have an open talk with your SO and address what you're ok with and not ok with. But pornagraphy is a harmful addiction and should be avoided

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Most men watch porn. As long as he isn't addicted I think its ok. Ask him what he likes about it and see if he can show you some of the porn hr watches. Maybe hr wants to spice up the sex life buy is scared to express that to you so bring it to him. 😊

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I definitely would not worry about it! I know my husband watches porn from time to time and I don't mind at all. But if it bothers you, or if you want to know if he's unsatisfied in some way - just talk to him about it! Communication is key ;)

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Maybe he doesn't feel completely comfortable with you sexually. Talk to him and expand your horizons

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Unless the porn is directly affecting your sex life or causing trouble in his everyday life (i.e. his work or family life is affected by his need to watch porn) its no more of an issue than occasionally playing video games or having a beer. Leave him be or maybe even join him.

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If y'all aren't having Sex then yes it's a problem. But if y'all are good in the sex department then it's bad

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Definitely nothing to worry about! My boyfriend watches usually late at night if he gets horny and doesn't want to wake me up. I also find it a little odd but totally normal!

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No I wouldn't stress. Most men watch it just to get off, if your busy or sleeping. My SO says its like soap operas haha he also says its just something different but there is nothing wrong with our sex life.

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No don't worry it doesn't always mean he isn't satisfied he may got horny and didn't want to wake you my bf watches it and im totally fine with it, it's not like he's out cheating he must likely was horny and couldn't sleep so pretty much tiring himself out. Haha

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