I’m a new member for this group and looking for some ideas on how to minister to my husband in this season of life.

On January 29 my husband and I went to our first ultrasound for our 3rd child together. I was 8 weeks exactly. I knew as soon as I saw the screen- we miscarried. We ultimately decided to have a D&C and that was scheduled on the 2nd of February. Everything happened so slow, but so fast.

My husband has been amazing through all of this. He’s taken charge over practically everything to let me rest and heal and process the loss. Tonight tensions were high and he expressed that I haven’t acknowledged he lost this baby too. My heart broke 😔

If any of you have gone though loss...how can I help my husband through this time? He’s never been a sharer and often keeps everything inside. I pray for him everyday and we pray together, I ask him how he is feeling, if there is anything he needs but he keeps on a strong face for us all. Any verses, or gifts, ideas, anything I can do to show him his grief is valid and important would be so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏼