My husband and I are an ocean apart rn

I deal with it by spending as much time with him as I possibly can. Which means I overcompensate with long phone calls, long lasting video calls, constant texts.

He deals with it by using distractions and avoiding feeling the pain of missing me. Which means he overcompensates by ignoring me, playing phone games, buying new things, spending time with his friends.

To me, it feels like he's pushing me away.

To him, it feels like I'm too dependent.

Is there anyone in an LDR that can help guide me to a compromise? That way both of us get what we want, and neither of us are in pain?