Hey!! So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. We “accidentally “ got pregnant. I decided to keep the baby but he doesn’t want it. He has 2 other kids from past relationships and I have a feeling that he’s just scared to go through what he went through with the other ladies. And well at the beginning we talked about us starting a family and we both agreed that we will but later on in the relationship. Everything was good until we decided not to use protection and I kept telling him that it could happen. I didn’t mind it but if he didn’t want another child, for us to start being careful. But that didn’t happen. At the beginning of the pregnancy he was very verbally abusive and I would cry day and night. He would say that now he’s forced to stay. Currently he’s been happy and looking at baby things and taking very good care of me and the baby. He helps with with everything. He’s being really good t me. I am 12 weeks pregnant I feel happy and stress free. He’s still undecided. I gave him the options of leaving and that I don’t need his child support or to stay but I need his 100%. So far he’s staying but I’m just not confident in that so I’m just focusing on my self and my baby.

He seems pretty happy about the baby mostly everyday. I do feel like he has those thoughts of not wanting the baby.

I’ve been looking into baby things like mommy and daddy items. And I found some really cute daddy sayings. So do you guys think it’s ok to buy my boyfriend a “i love you daddy” saying?