so, my fiance has a very high sex drive. physical touch and sex is also a big part of his love language.

i am the opposite, i basically never have a sex drive. i don’t care for it. now i’m 8 weeks pregnant and it’s even worse than before. I DREAD having sex. I don’t want to be touched at all much less sex. thinking about it just gives me anxiety, so many negative feelings, etc. I just don’t want it right now.

with that being said, i know i’ll push him away if we go without it for too long. it’s already been over a month without it 😅

Any advice? I swear I’m not being dramatic, I genuinely cannot stand the thought of sex right now, and I don’t want to force myself to do something that I just don’t want. But I don’t want to push him away either.

Last night I told him, that basically sex just isn’t a thing for me right now. It’s bringing me too many negative emotions and at that point I feel like I just shouldn’t try to force myself. He was disappointed, but tried to be as understanding as possible. I just feel bad and I know it is pushing him away