Is it selfish to want to be spoilt on birthdays/christmas/valentines?

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Its not selfish to want it, its only selfish if you punish others for not doing it.

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If you want your partner to spoil you on holidays you should spoil them just as much.

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Nooooooope! Once I set a higher standard I started getting every single thing I want out of life, gifts included. In the past I dated losers that gifted me crap, one even got me a can of Pringles for Christmas. That got old quick. I found a good man, made my standards known from the beginning and now were engaged and he spoils me rotten. 💅🏻 Don’t let anyone talk you out of what you want from life.

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Are you taking a bunch without giving anything in return? If the person enjoys spoiling you, that’s fine. It’s fine wanting to be pampered or whatever, but I genuinely would question why you need material gifts or validation for someone to be in your life. 
Maybe we just have differing love languages, though.

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Unbelievable the way some people think others have been put on earth to fulfill their desires.
A woman was to give birth to this person so one day they will be doing what you want fulfilling your pleasure...unbelievable.

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Not if you actually appreciate it and don’t expect it. Expected a bunch of things and being upset you don’t get them is being a spoiled brat.

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No I d only think so but it goes both ways

Is it selfish to want to be spoilt on birthdays/christmas/valentines?

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