Hows your marriage?

As we get closer to a year of this pandemic, it feels like my husband and I get further apart. We haven't gone on a "date" , gone to a restaurant, or had so much as a night to the two of us in a YEAR. Were both exhausted. I'm so burnt out. And we're not connecting on anything right now. Conversations turn into arguments and it just feels like all to much. When I even bring up a getaway weekend or just going to a damn restaurant once he shuts it down. I know we will be OK longterm but man I am mentally exhausted and I guess I just want to know if I'm alone in this. The things we used to do to decompress and connect don't exist anymore and it makes me so sad... I miss my partner.