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Hmmm,The only logical reason I could think of why he would want to start using them, would be to protect you from something he’s possibly caught....
Kinda odd
So my husband has recently wanted to start using condoms. It’s odd because he hated them but lately he has switched it up. We have a old stash from when we were dating and during our process of moving he keeps saying he wants us to use the condoms.
Edit: I’m on birth control stash is about 2-3 years old
I have asked him; he says because he doesn’t feel “clean”
He does have a really bad lying problem
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He cheated, caught something and doesn’t want you to find out so he doesn’t pass it to you, or cheated caught something and gave it to you already and is getting treated for it and isn’t trying to reinfect himself, so when you get tested he’ll blame you because he’s “clean”.
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This is a good one too.
The fact that he's mentioned condoms makes him guilty of having done hanky panky. On the contrary, I applaud him for having the balls to suggest condoms knowing full well what he's going to get into. He has heart... trying to keep you safe... in spite of his mistake, he cares for you. So, have a conversation with him preferably with a counsellor and take it from there.
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Gonna have to side with Ophelia on this one. We really gotta stop rewarding scrote behaviour. He did less than the bare minimum. We need to stop praising that. If he gave a flying shit about her for real, he wouldnt do it in the first place.
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Of course he's lying, there's no question about that but how many men knowingly infect their spouses with STDs well aware that there those that are incurable? 8.5/10.... basically the majority. Yes, he is guilty, but he is insisting on condom use! Guilty as he is, why is he insisting? Some part of him cares enough to protect his spouse. Yes, he'll have to get treatment and there are repercussions after treatment but he's at least cared enough to insist on a condom.
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How does he care for her ?? If he's really been out cheating and got something putting a condom on and lying about the situation is far from caring .actually it's disgusting
Yeah from that I automatically assumed it's because he has caught something off someone else. Or hasn't been cleaning himself and has an infection he is to embarrassed to deal with. If it's an infection from not cleaning or something take him to the doctors. It's better to be treated then ignore it and hope it goes away, I hope it's the latter rather than caught something off someone else but I think some serious questioning is needed as no guy likes the feeling of a condom and if it's "he doesn't want to knock you up dispite your birth control" using condoms that old is risky and won't work how he thinks they will... I really hope it's not the bad news we are all thinking though! It is just a very strange thing to do though
I think you should ask him why he wants to use condoms. My first thought was that he didn’t want you to get pregnant but reading the comments several people mentioned std… Maybe I’m built differently but if I caught something cheating I’d just go to the doctor and get it treated. I don’t know. Ask him and see what he says.
You know he lies a lot... so you already know he’s not a person who is worthy of your trust. Who knows what his problem is, but you know you can’t trust him, so personally I wouldn’t believe anything that comes out of his mouth and I definitely wouldn’t be fucking someone I can’t trust. Continuing to have sex with someone you know you can’t trust (married or not) is a poor choice imo. Why would you even be with someone who you have to question their intentions like this? That’s no way to live.
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