asking if she’s at my house “still”

I’m bothered that this girl lied to her dude telling him she was with me and my two kids. (My SO is at work) probably gave him a sob story, like if I was complaining that my man was at work. (She’s done this before) she didn’t give me a heads up NOR did she ask me if she can do that.

(They have a toxic relationship cheat on eachother and she complains about his family)

So I’m mad and wanna message him back -_-

I’ve told her before to leave him or stop complaining about it because it’s getting old. told her to break up with him so he can stop treating her like shit. Ive told her she needs to go to therapy for her issues because she’s disrespectful as well.

I’ve told her to leave so she doesn’t need to cheat. I’ve told her plenty.

Should I just let it go and just keep minding my own business?

Tell her not to use me as an excuse anymore?

Message them both?

Just let it go? And stop talking to her?

What would you do?

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I text her

“Hey it upset me that you told X yu were with me.

You didn’t tell me nor ask if you could use me as an excuse

He asked me if yu were still at my place and I said “No sorry is she okay”

What if he would have came and knocked on my door. I’m bothered you put me in that situation to lie for you AND without a heads up of what was going on”

I messaged him back saying No...

she called me, apologized and said that she felt guilty. I told her she shouldn’t feel guilty “you wanted to cheat, you did, now own that shit -_- why you feeling guilty you’re grown and made that decision.”

Anywho thanks guys!!!! I will most definitely be keeping my distance. Did not want to just “ignore” and allow her to think it was okay to do. ***********