So me and my ex have been Apart for a year now. We were together for three years and never had an actual conversation about what went down. I’m huge on communication, because I feel like it helps in the growth process. I like to hear feedback of what I did wrong or could have done better and vise versa. And just understanding my connection with people. I feel like this generation especially is communicating less and less. Ex. Ghosting and all of those things. So I feel like it’s time to have that conversation with him because lately he’s been asking to go out for an “outing” with me. And I don’t want to do that and act like nothing ever happened. He is the type to suppress and I’m more of someone who tackles problems head on (Hence why it didn’t work out). I don’t mind going for an “outing” but I feel like this conversation about the problems we faced is necessary first but I Just don’t know how I would ask him to have that conversation before going out. Any advice ?