Still no sex after birth, anyone else?

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I’m kind of afraid since it’s been so long. Any advice? Anyone dealing with this too?

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We did after 2 weeks pp and it wasn’t bad at all, before birth I could NEVER orgasm during sex and now I do frequently so if anything it’s better than ever!

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Me too :( I feel bad for my husband but I’m just so scared for anything to be near my vagina since I tore so bad 😭

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In the same boat here.. it’s literally the last thing on my mind ... I do want it though but it’s just like I get so tired !! Anytime baby is sleeping I try to nap with him.. and I always go to bed early with him also mainly because I have to wake up at 3;45 am 😫 to get ready for work and pump ... and we have opposite schedules during the week so we really only have the weekend.. and also are cosleeping 🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s a messy situation lol it’s so much adjustment that it’s taking me a little bit to really take everything in.

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Same omg I’ve only done it once like a month ago , but I’m still kinda scared 😭😭

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It took a while after my first baby. I just had my 3rd baby and no issues with sex. Drink lots of water and use lube if you're scared it will hurt. Foreplay too!

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Yes not me its been almost a year it will be this month on the 21 the last time we had sex that was in February of 2020😭😭😓 and I fine put on March 21 of 2020

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At this point let your husband seduce you and work you up! There is probably a lot of anxiety for you that will need some gentle caresses and good kisses to help out with.

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It’s not been much for me either and I had a c section lol.
Don’t panic, just go with what is comfortable for you and your partner. It’s not a race! 🙂

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After my first ( I was single though) I didnt have sex for soooooo long and I'm talking a very long time but being single didnt help as I wasnt going to have sex with just anyone. After my second and 3rd I waited 2 weeks 😂 and had it daily since!

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Single AF with a 4mo and a toddler... I guess maybe next decade for me 😂😂😂😂

Still no sex after birth, anyone else?

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