I’m 20 years old and my boyfriend and I were having sex with a condom, I was having a good time but he wasn’t which I wasn’t aware of since it’s my second time having sex...He went limp twice because he wasn’t feeling much and I instantly felt horrible. In the end I gave him head so that he could release but I still cried after because I felt humiliated.

What can I do/suggest to make him enjoy having sex with me or at least feel something without us having to have unprotected sex ?