So my birthday was in January and my husband failed to do anything more than post a simple..everyone go wish my wife a happy bday on stupid facebook.

He literally got me nothing. No gift, no candy or cake, no card..I mean nothing. Our heat went out on the house and we literally spent the night apart because I wanted to keep our one year old daughter warm.

So whatever..I've talk to him about it since and asked him if he still really cared about me or felt loved by me now that we are close to three years married..he apologized said that he was just bad at that stuff

So valentine's day comes..not even one month after the saddest worst bday ever. And what does he do? Just promise me that one day when the snow melts he is going to do a house project outside for me 🙄.

I got him and our daughter dinner from his favorite restaurant the day before and gave them these vday baskets full of things they love or wanted.

He went to work Sunday morning and then had a casual meeting with a group of other people..so once again...I got absolutely nothing and he was gone all day.

I can't help but to be emotional and think the worst. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I feel completely forgotten. I don't know what I ever did to be the last person he thinks about. I don't know what more to tell him how much this stuff is breaking my heart. I don't want items....I just want to feel important to someone. Right now I feel invisible in our marriage..only a person for childcare and cleaning and making ends meet...he tells me he loves me but that's the extent of our relationship. It just hurts so freaking much....I'm tired of feeling like this. 😭😭😭