Is it wrong to be a bit uncertain & nervous before getting married? I never dated anyone seriously and found a great guy who has proven himself in every way. I just guess you could say I get nervous about what the future holds? I’m so used to having that dating app mentality of “there always be someone better”. No one is perfect and I get that. I’m not perfect myself either. I just get in my own head a lot. Thinking that I may miss out on other experiences even though I’m happy right now. I tend to get insecure and compare myself to others to determine what is normal since I have no experience. Dating as an adult definitely is different than when I was younger. I used to get extreme butterflies and like obsess over my crush. I honestly just feel content in my relationship and like we are best friends. I don’t get jealous or protective and we both respect one another and have great communication. We never fight - if we have disagreements we talk it out and end it all on a good note. That’s not something I’ve ever had with someone. So I don’t know what I’m feeling. Is this what love is supposed to feel like? Why is it so easy and I feel comfortable? Why don’t I get butterflies & protective? Am I just not used to healthy relationships and I’m taken back a bit? Why is he so nice to me? Why am I in my own head? Why do I feel like it’s strange to not ever have an argument (not that I’ve ever tried 😂) but it used to happen in relationships. And lastly... why am I questioning myself so much???