I found out a few days ago my son had been self harming. My youngest daughter caught him doing it and he made her promise not to tell, but she finally told us. When I asked him why he started crying and I started crying. I knew he was suffering from anxiety and was dealing with some depression. I just didn't know he resorted to cutting. We are trying to get him therapy, but with everything that has been going on with covid and everything, everyone needs a therapist. So there are none available. He is on a wait list right now. My husband thinks we need to take his door off his hinges to make sure he's not cutting. I'm not sure if that will make things better or worse. How can I help him until he gets assigned a therapist? Things are so tense here. He refuses to talk to his sister. The energy is just so negative and sad😔