Weight gain ⚠️

Lay

Hi ladies ftm, so I have gained a total of 40pounds ... My ob said they usually prefer 25-30 pounds .. I’m a little worried because for one I’m not even close to being done only 32 weeks and I’m sure I’ll still gain more , and secondly will that mean I’ll have a big baby , I eat breakfast usually little lunch but I’m not gonna lie I eat dinner a lot till I fall asleep I have food in my mouth lol .. I have a growth scan at 34 weeks . Did any one gain 40 or more pounds? And how do I manage to not gain more weight but still be healthy ? Any advice would be great