Being with someone who doesn't truly care about your mental health. When he sees you struggling to take care of the 3 kids and the house, his response is making you feel like you're not good enough rather than being a true partner and offering to lighten your load.

Instead of saying "I see you struggling, let me help you"

He says "what can we do to MAKE SURE you get everything done"

I'm so exhausted.

I know you're all just going to say "leave him" but it's more complicated than that.

I hope if any of you are with a man who doesn't treat you like gold, and you haven't had kids yet... fucking run. Run as hard and as fast and you can and never look back. Being this deep in with someone like that destroys you.