Ladiesss I need your guys advice ; I have known this guy for 11 years we always kept in touch there was nothing more because we both had our significant other . What are the odds that him and his bm for years separate around the time me and my significant other separate. We started talking again but now this time we are seeing each other a lot every week . Use to text a lot now it’s ever so often but we still chill. He stated he wanted to take things slow I was okay with that cause I just had gotten out of a long relationship myself . I’m finding my self catching feelings for him and he has stated he has too but is he being honest with me ? I have a feeling he is still dating his bm I am not slow and I know the Babymama always going to be in his life they have a kid . But I don’t want to give him all the attention and love and now I’m just sharing him? What should I do ????