Hey guys! So my SO and I see each other for a weekend every 3-4 weeks (or longer in between). Last weekend was our one year but we didn’t see each other (I’m in college, he lives in a different state). We decided to celebrate on Valentine’s Day for both the one year and V day. I bought him a basket with a candle, door dash gift card, candle, and a Star Wars mug. I also included a card and a photo of us. When I told him I got him something (on our way to his place after he picked me up) he went “yeah I didn’t get you anything” and after we got to his place and I gave him his gift, he said “so we are very clear, I didn’t get you anything.” He doesn’t need to get me something but I figured for our one year and Valentine’s Day, he would have. But I don’t want to seem greedy because he did drive 2 hours to get me then 2 hours backs and he makes me dinner when I’m down there. But I would have liked a card.

Earlier this year I made a Pinterest photo collage of us and I sent him a pic to show him and he hated it. He told me he didn’t want it and that I should keep it bc I would appreciate it more.

I love him but sometimes I feel like a place holder for him and that our relationship is slipping away. Any advice?